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Tuesday, October 16, 2018

The Weight of Being a Pastor - BY SCOTT SLAYTON

Found here. My comments in bold.
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There is hardly anything in this missive that describes the actual biblical role of pastor. The author will never advise the reader how to transfer the burden to others. He will never explain how gifted people can help carry the burden of leadership.

No wonder present-day "pastors" are so weighted down, they are bearing burdens God never intended for them.

Anyone taking the author's advice is setting themselves up for failure.
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Do you have a Bible verse that jumps off the page at you every time you read it? No matter how many times you have come across it, you always stop to ponder it. This verse is a never-ending wonder to you. You might be encouraged by it, convicted by it, or perplexed by it, but you always stop when you see it.

2 Corinthians 11:28 is that verse for me. To understand what is so startling about it, you must read what has come before. To prove his apostleship, Paul boasted in his weaknesses and cataloged the trials he had faced. He received thirty-nine lashes five times endured three beatings with rods. A mob stoned him. He was shipwrecked three times, faced countless dangers, and spend nights in cold and hunger.

Then, as if these things were not enough, Paul said, “And, apart from other things, there is the daily pressure on me of my anxiety for all the churches.” That this line occurs in a litany of Paul’s difficulties and sufferings speaks volumes about the weight that pastors carry in caring for their churches. (The author appropriates the apostolic burden Paul has for "all the churches" as his own.)

In one sense, pastors have a difficult job just like everyone else in the world. We all work in a world marred by sin and know the experience of work being hard, uncomfortable, and unenjoyable. At the same time, because of the unique calling involved in leading a church, (Paul did not "lead a church." There is no calling to lead a church, leadership is a spiritual gift [Rom. 12:8]. It is not unique any more than any gift is unique. The author inflates the importance of his faulty view of pastorship to the point where failure is almost assured.

Leadership is a team effort, there is not supposed to be a titular leader at the top of a pyramid:
He. 13:7 Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith.
He. 13:17 Obey your leaders and submit to their authority.
He. 13:24 Greet all your leaders and all God’s people.
It is the elders who govern the affairs of the church:
1Ti. 5:17 The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching. proclaiming God’s word... 
There should be multiple people serving the church, and pastor is identified separately from teacher.
Ep. 4:11 It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers...)
and caring for souls, the pastoral ministry carries a gravity that is difficult to explain. (Probably because the author isn't using the Bible as a source of information.)

Every serious pastor labors under a heavy weight. This is not belly-aching or an embellishment, but rather this is the reality of being a pastor. The work is serious and the work has eternal ramifications. We have the burden of walking with people through the most difficult times of their lives, the pain of sleepless nights because of anxiety over the church, the task of preaching God’s word on a weekly basis, and the joy of seeing God use it all for his glory.

In this post, I want to highlight six weights that pastors carry. I do this not to elicit sympathy, but to remind pastors of the appropriate sense of responsibility that we carry and the danger of carrying the weight on our own. (Well, he got that right. It is unbiblical for the pastor to carry the weight of leading the church.)

If you are not a pastor, my aim is to help you understand how to pray for and encourage your pastor in the calling God has placed on him. (Pray for him and encourage him, but don't left a finger to show him where he is bearing burdens he ought not bear...)

Pastors Carry the Weight of Modeling Godly Living

Every Christian has the call to live a godly life that is worthy of the calling with which he has been called. The pastor sits in the unique position of this being his primary job requirement. (Biblical reference?)

Ungodly men may draw crowds or wow audiences. Only godly pastors fulfill their calling in a way that brings genuine honor and glory to God.

The roadblock for the pastor is looking at every setback in the church as a verdict on the deficiency of his own godliness. “If I walked with Jesus more faithfully… If I spent more time in prayer… If I were a better man…” (If I stopped trying to be something God doesn't want me to be... If I actually obeyed the biblical structure for the church... If I identified and installed people in ministry according to their gifts...)

Pastor, this is difficult, but remember that you are a Christian before you are a pastor. Your identity is found in Jesus’ work for you on the cross and your union with him by faith. Uncouple your joy and how you think God looks at you from the apparent fruit or seeming lack thereof in your church. Enjoy being a Christian, read your Bible, spend time in prayer, put your sin to death, grow in godly virtue, work hard in your calling and trust your Father with the fruit.

Pastors Carry the Weight of Leading Their Families

God calls pastors to be an example to their church in the way they lead their families. The pastor is to be a committed, loving husband and a man who faithfully teaches and trains his children. Again, every Christian man carries this responsibility, but it is in the pastor’s job description. (The author apparently is referring to 1 Tim. chapter 3. However, this passage is not about pastors, it is referring to "overseers." Peter identifies the elders as overseers:
1Pe. 5:1-2 To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow-elder, a witness of Christ’s sufferings and one who also will share in the glory to be revealed: 2 Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, serving as overseers...
 He must be this to function as a pastor in the local church.

Carrying the weight of leading our families can be tricky. I have four children between the ages of thirteen and three. Some days, it feels as if every word that comes out of my mouth gets ignored. They argue, they disobey, and I wonder how I can lead anyone else when my own children won’t listen to me. Then, suddenly, something will happen that shows you that what you are teaching them is getting through and God is using it to bear fruit in their lives.

Pastor, faithfully lead your family but resist the temptation to take the spiritual temperature of your family every day. There will be days that no matter how faithfully you lead, your children will show ample evidence that they have a fallen nature within them. Other days, you will see obvious evidences of God’s grace in their lives. Look at the whole of how you are loving, teaching, disciplining, and spending time with your children and do not let one poor snapshot discourage you.

Pastors Carry the Weight of Preaching God’s Word

The Scottish Reformer John Knox once said, “I have never feared the devil, but I tremble every time I enter the pulpit.” The weight of taking God’s word, proclaiming its message to people, applying it to their lives, and calling them to trust in Christ should lie heavily upon us. It is no light thing to speak to people on God’s behalf. (Again the author does not understand the biblical role of pastor. While pastors certainly may preach, it is not their "job!" Again 1Ti. 5:17: 
The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching.
It is the elders, particularly those who are gifted as preachers and teachers, who do this.)

The weekly grind of preaching can be mentally, emotionally, and spiritually exhausting if you are taking it seriously. (The author has swerved into the truth, but can't put two and two together. He should not be doing this week after week. He should be part of a team who does this.)

Every week, we wrestle with a passage of Scripture, seeking to understand what it means and how it should change the lives of the people who hear it. We labor over the Bible, commentaries, word studies, and possible points of application. We plead with God to take what we will say and use it for his glory. Then we preach with all of our heart and get up on Monday morning to start preparing to do it again.

Pastor, view the work of preaching like a craftsman, who is constantly sharpening his tools so that he might be more effective at his work. Grow in your knowledge of Scripture, develop a deeper understanding of the lives of the people you preach to, think carefully about structuring your sermon so that people will want to listen, and work hard to state old truths in fresh and compelling ways. Here’s the hard part, though, not one word will be effective unless God’s Spirit is at work through your words. Pray for the Father to take your labors and use them for his glory.

Pastors Carry the Weight of Shepherding the Church

If you think about the ministry and picture standing on a stage talking to people, you are only visualizing two percent of a pastor’s week. The pastor studies and preaches, but he also stands under the divine mandate to care for the church. (The author finally gets one right. The pastor's primary role is to care for the church. Not to preach. Not to shovel the sidewalk of snow. Not to preside over the church. Not to be the professional christian.)

We show pray with people in pain, walk with people facing difficulty, and counsel people dealing with difficult decisions. We answer knotty theological questions and explain truths we have explained time and time again. This is not glamorous work, but it is the simple means that God uses to show love to his people and build up his church. (Again, the author just doesn't understand the way the church should work. It is all the people in the church encouraging one another that builds up the church:
1Co. 14:12 So it is with you. Since you are eager to have spiritual gifts, try to excel in gifts that build up the church.
Pastor, do not neglect your personal ministry. We serve in the ministry of the Chief Shepherd, who loves his people and purchased them with his own blood. (1 Peter 5:1-5) We cannot neglect to listen to them, pray with them, and walk alongside them. Jesus shows his love to his people through our ministry and uses our personal presence to care for his people’s souls.

Pastors Carry the Weight of Reaching Their Communities

I pastor in the most unchurched county in Alabama. While many of you may think that places don’t exist in the Bible Belt, only 14% of the people in my culturally conservative town attend church on a typical Sunday. For the whole county, that number is 16%. When stretched out for an entire month, barely 30% of the over 215,000 people in our area are not connected to a local body of believers.

The numbers will be different for your community, but the point is clear. Our churches exist to “proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.” (1 Peter 2:9) As pastors, God calls us as pastors to lead our churches in reaching their neighbors (No, no, no! There is no Scripture that the author can point to that says this.)

and to model it personally. In the qualifications for the pastor in 1 Timothy 3, Paul says he must be “hospitable.” That is, he must welcome outsiders in the name of Jesus.

Pastor, you cannot reach your city alone, (Yes, but what is the author's advice about not carrying it alone? He has none.)

but you can look for opportunities to speak about the grace of Jesus throughout your day. Get to know your neighbors, develop a routine where you are meeting new people, engage people in genuine conversations, and pray for opportunities to talk about Jesus. Then, teach the people in your church how to do the same. We want people in our communities to come to know Jesus, so we practice evangelism and pray for God’s blessing on our efforts.

Pastors Carry the Weight of Carrying the Weight

Confession: writing this post terrified me. Knowing all that God has called me to do overwhelms me. It should. The work of the ministry is too great for a man to bear in his own strength and it is too much for him to carry in his own power. (Yes, yes, yes! But what is the answer, sir?)

When we feel the weight of being a pastor, it should drive us to work hard for the glory of God, but it should not drive us to work alone, in our own strength, or by ignoring the command to rest one day out of seven. We work in the strength that God supplies. We serve alongside godly elders who carry the load with us (Finally. Finally the author acknowledges the elders. But clearly he isn't utilizing them according to their biblical calling, because he is overwhelmed by the magnitude of his misunderstood calling.)

and one day a week we shut down because God’s Spirit is completely capable of working even when we are not.

Pastor, if you try to carry the weight on your own, it will crush you, your family, and the people around you. Your joy will be sapped and your walk with Jesus will suffer. Trust me about this. I speak from experience. Work hard, but trust the Lord for the results. It is not your church; it is his. He bought it with his own blood. Give responsibilities to your other leaders. You do not have all the gifts. Jesus’ body does, though. (We have waded through hundreds of words only to arrive at a tepid recommendation to embrace the gifts of the body. It seems like lip service, however, because everything he has written to this point assumes a lone gun laboring under heavy responsibilities, alone and discouraged, teetering on the brink of breakdown. 

That's why he wrote the article, isn't it? He's trying to encourage pastors to keep pushing on. But he offers absolutely no tools or strategies to alleviate the unbiblical burden pastors bear.)

The weight of pastoring can be heavy, but it can also lead to joy. We serve under the Chief Shepherd. He will give us strength as we work. He will bring fruit from our labors. He will glorify himself through our efforts. You may not see it all now, but when the Chief Shepherd appears, we will see what he has done through us and then give him the glory because he did it all.

(It is ironic indeed that the author is so keenly aware of the pitfalls of the contemporary pastor job but is unable to articulate a cogent, biblical answer. Sad.)

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